How can I get my boyfriend/ bd to show me more affection?

Oh see that's the problem 3 years kinda gets boring and just used to the relationship. First year everyone is always in that honeymoon state. All you have to do is not ask for affection ;) or give him any just talk to him about his problems and change something in your look.Like dress more nicely so he can notice and just be optimistic around him and try to make him happy without all that gushy mushy kissing and hugging . Just smile around him tyr to understand him and change your look make yourself look more beautiful then ever ! He will open his eyes and become affectionate :O . Although of course if you do all those things the right way. Oh and 3 years going out poeple get bored being with the same person if either of you are making changes and trying to make it more interesting and thats wheere cheating comes in ;) .Don't wish you that so good luck ;)